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無名火

無名火可能來自抑鬱

抑鬱,一般人都以為處在抑鬱狀態的人情緒是低落的,心境是惡劣的,想法是消極的,行為是退縮的。但有一種情緒和行為現象很容易被大家所忽略,這就是激怒。

所謂的激怒,就是很容易因一些不足掛齒的小事而大發雷霆。很多患有抑鬱的人都有這樣的感受,覺得自己的“無名火”特別大,常常為了一些小事發很大的脾氣。有一個抑鬱的學生,因一時的激怒與老師爭執,不僅語言傷人還撕毀了老師的備課筆記。事後校方要學生做檢查,向老師賠禮道歉,還給這個學生記了一個“大過”。但大家卻沒有能關注和理解學生的激怒來源於他的抑鬱。

一般來說,抑鬱患者在事後都能清醒地意識到自己的脾氣太過分,也很想改變這種狀態,但事實上如果抑鬱沒有根本好轉,激怒的狀態也難以消除。消除抑鬱中伴有的激怒,除用藥物治療外,自我心理調適和接受心理治療也是十分有效的方法。
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是的,需要好好留意自己。

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2 Comments

  1. Fanny

    Edmund, I’ve read both posts on this topic and have deep thought about it.
    I agree on the first one and ask “do I really love God and His family?” although you have already changed the content to this 2nd post.
    I understand why you are doing so (I think)…and I would pray for you…

  2. Thanks for your prayer. I hope people will change through the listening of God’s words, not my words.

    As for me, I need to be changed by God’s words as well. May the Lord have mercy on all of us.

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