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We are not building an empire…

In one of the ending chapters, Peterson expressed what he sees as a positive change between his congregation and him, after he returned from a year of sabbatical leave:

A recent incident, seemingly trivial, illustrates the profound difference that keeps showing up in a variety of situations. About twenty-five of us were going on an overnight leadership retreat. We had agreed to meet in the church parking lot at 5:45 to car-pool together. I made a hostpotal visit that took longer than planned and arrived five minutes late — to an empty parking lot. They had left me. Before the sabbatical, that would never have happened; now that kind of thing happens all the time. They can take care of themselves and know that I can take care of myself. Maturity.

We are both, the congregation and I, experiencing a great freedom in this: neither of us neurotically needs each other. I am not dependent on them; they aren’t dependent on me. That leaves us free to appreciate each other and receive gifts of ministry from each other.

Eugene Peterson, The Gift — Reflections on Christian Ministry, p.151.

What do you think? How would you feel when something like that happened to you as a pastor? Reading Peterson’s words, and looking at how Apple’s share slump on Steve Job’s temporal medical leave, one has to wonder how counter-cultural pastoral work can be, and must be.

No, as pastors, we are not called to build an empire — at least not one that circles around ourselves. If your congregation cannot survive upon your departure or your extended leave of absence, it could only mean one thing — that those people have been following the wrong person all along.

May the neighbors’ words to the Samaritan woman be a constant reminder to all of us who are leading, shepherding and teaching:

We no longer believe just because of what you said; now we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this man really is the Savior of the world. (John 5.42)

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2 Comments

  1. That is very true, there shouldn’t be any unhealthy co-dependency established a pastor and the congregants.

    But what do you think about Anglican churches, where the priest is the only one who has authority to administer the sacraments? Can a congregation survive long without a priest doing those things only he can do?

  2. that is why in the Anglican church, there is such a thing as interim pastor. But still, the underlying rationale is that A priest in needed in every congregation, but that does not always means YOU. It is the role, not the person.

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